Greetings. Yes, you will be responsible for half of all the debt created during the marriage. The court may make some concession to you due to the fact that he made the debt without your knowledge. My suggestion, although not what you want to hear, is leave now before it gets worse.
Also, if you are a stay at home mom, you are likely to get enough alimony to pay your half of the debts. Make sure to hire an attorney that is experienced with this behavior and knows how to negotiate a settlement for you. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax
10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
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