This weekend is my exes per the schedule, but in our tentative agreement it states Easter would always be spent with me.
I followed the holiday schedule in the tentative agreement for previous holidays even though I wasn’t court ordered to do so.
I asked him 3/3 if I could have Easter based on this. He agreed and I have the correspondence from 3/3 via text messages.
I’ve bought my sons Easter outfit and my family has lunch planned after church based on the agreement to let me have Easter.
Yesterday, he asked if he could pick my son up Thursday night (noraml pickup is Friday at 3pm), but I said no because we have plans Thursday night. I have offered that he can pickup Friday and I will meet him Saturday or we can switch weekends and he can take mine next week.
He has refused both.
So he is refusing to bring my son back to me Saturday as we had planned. I’ve told him I won’t be sending my son unless I have it in writing that he will be returned Saturday afternoon as planned. Is this acceptable? Will I get in trouble with the judge? Need your advice on how to handle please.
We go to court this month…hopefully, so the tentative agreement is what we’ve been working on, but are stuck on a few issues, but not holidays.