Dear Blindsided:
There is a program known as Divorce Care and one local branch is listed herein below. Mr. John Garriss is a fantastic leader here in our area and may be able to help you find a branch in yours.
Mr. John Garriss
Apex United Methodist Church
P.O. Box 723
Apex, North Carolina 27502
Phone: 362-7807 ext. 227
As far as a group for fathers/men group, I recommend that you contact, Martin Brossman (contact information to follow) to see if he can assist you or help you find a group in your area. Martin is an excellent resource for men and their personal growhth.
Martin Brossman
Life Coach
Raleigh, NC office: (919) 847-4757
web: CoachingSupport.com
5210a Holly Ridge Dr. Suite 251
Raleigh NC 27612 USA
Finally, I believe that you will come through this fine, although I completely understand your current amount of pain. Best of luck and let us know what you find so that we can refer others in your area!
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
NCDivorce.com
919-787-6668
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