Greetings. “Ex Parte” means only one party is meeting with the judge because they are not giving notice to the other party. When someone meets with a judge ex parte - the other side gets a chance to talk to the judge within 10 days.
Now, my advice is to immediately file a Motion to Show Cause against her and let the judge know everything that has happened. If I were you, I would get an attorney involved.
You may also want to file a Motion to Modify Child Custody to ask the court to allow you to move with your child. It is up to the court if your child can move or not. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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