Greetings. You should spend as much time with your children as possible. Docuemnt on a calendar what events you do with them…and make the calendar a fun part of their lives. You can create a picture scrapbook of your time together. You should ensure that you take them (or attend with her) doctor appointments and school events. Be as active of a parent as you can be.
You should let her know now that you have heard the rumor that she may be planning to marry this man and that you want her to assure you that she will not be moving the children. Tell her up front that you do not agree to the move and state all the reasons why. I would not wait until she has cemented her plans to move, but act before then.
The judge may grant her the ability to take them with her. The judge will be looking at what is in the best interests of the children. If living with your ex-wife is in their best interests, and the move is also in your ex-wife’s best interest, then the court may allow the move. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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