So my husband and i “separated” summer of 2012. I moved out and moved to VA on July 1, 2012. He initially said he wanted to separate in early June 2012. I had separation papers and he refuses to sign. we have no kids together and I am not looking for any money, or property; he can have it all, I just want out and to be divorced.
Since he refuses to sign the papers as of july 2, 2013 can I still file for divorce? Do i need proof that I moved out on July 2nd? All I want is for this marriage to be over and done. Since I live in VA are there different rules that apply? I know VA is also a “no fault” state so that helps I think. I assume once I do get divorce papers he will refuse to sign those as well, anything I can do about that?
Basically I want a divorce and he can keep everything, I don’t care at this point. I live in VA and he is in NC. What are my options or routes to go about doing so? I’d really like some help on resolving this.
oh, and if I am able to file for divorce this summer do I have to wait another year for my divorce decree or can it all be finalized this summer once either he signs the papers or I do a Service of Process by Publication?