Greetings. First, adultery is a crime in NC. Next, if you are not in court, then you are just wasting your time asking for records that no one is going to voluntarily provide to you.
Typically, lying about an affair has little to no bearing on whether or not you are a good parent. The affair would have to affect her parenting abilities for it to affect custody.
No, I don’t know what ramifications exist for the state providing her funds for a trip.
You are correct that working things out with someone that cannot tell the truth is impossible. I wish you luck. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax
10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
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