Greetings. Let’s give you an answer:
It depends on why they do not engage in sex, but I would argue that it would be a divorce and not an annulment.
If the person is outside North Carolina they should follow the steps in their state. Is at least one of the parties in NC? The detailed steps for North Carolina can be found on the main website. Let me know if after looking whether or not you locate the same.
Yes, if you file for divorce without an attorney, you would need to come to NC.
If you don’t know where the spouse is, you are likely to need to retain an attorney to help you gain proper service. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
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