Inappropriate Situation with a minor


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A few months back my soon to be ex-husband took my 4 year old son to a “friends” house for a full body massage. She had to do so many massages for her training and although professional I feel it was innapropriate. It was at her house in a bedroom on a massage table. No one else was home. My husband stripped to his boxers and she “taught” my son how to massage him. Is this child abuse to see his daddy in his underwear in another womans home with her touching him on the buttocks. However professional it may be I cannot get over it. I talked to him about it and said he would not do it again but did not see anything innapropriate about it. Our case is in Avery county Nc. I want to have the court order him to counseling about appropriate child/adult situations and to have visitation supervised until he completes it.