By logging into a shared cell phone account, I am able to read text messages in real time. I have read and saved texts from my husband to someone else, regarding a girl (by name) visiting him (at the home he has stayed in since leaving me) and asking his family to keep quiet about it. This happens to be the same girl in which he was texting on a daily basis a couple of years ago.
Keep in mind, since he left, we’ve been in constant contact by phone and in person, and often discussed reconciliation. So there was no clear expectation of divorce.
Is this enough proof to alter an alimony case? I have also been told by an attorney that I could also have a legal proposal written up and present it to my husband, along with the texts, to negotiate a divorce agreement out of court. Is this true? Is this enough ‘proof’ should we end up in court?