I think your best first course of action is to communicate with him, referencing the copy of your separation agreement stating that alimony is due on the first of the month, and letting him know that this is affecting your ability to pay rent. This would save you the time-delay and expense of pursuing a lawsuit. However, should you feel that negotiating with him directly is not an option, your remedy against him is for breach of the separation agreement. You should discuss with an attorney what this type of lawsuit would entail.
Meg Miller
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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