I’m not sure of what your question really is, but in North Carolina once you and your spouse are living in separate locations, and do not intend to live together any longer, then you are legally separated. You do not need any paperwork saying that you have separated. However, if you have property or debts that need to be allocated, then a separation agreement may be necessary. You may also deal with spousal support and custody issues in such an agreement.
If you and your spouse have separated, but not divorced, then you may not date. Adultery is a crime in North Carolina.
Once you and your spouse have been separated for 1 year, either one of you may file for divorce. However, you should either have a separation agreement signed, or a pending lawsuit to deal with the distribution of marital property and spousal support filed before you are divorced. Otherwise, you lose the right to pursue those actions.
I hope this helps!
Shonnese D. Stanback
Attorney
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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