Based on the terms used in your post it appears that you are not a resident of North Carolina. I can only give advice based on North Carolina and I am not licensed to practice in any other district.
In North Carolina you are entitled to an equitable division of all property acquired during the marriage. If your spouse has all of the marital assets and is refusing to provide you with any funds, you can file a lawsuit and ask for an interim distribution, at that time the court should distribute some of the marital assets to you.
Helena M. Nevicosi
Attorney with Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.787.6361 main fax
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