Dear rockwell2g:
Greetings. Let’s see what I can do to answer these:
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It may or may not affect your child support. It depends on if she plans and does return to work and if so, for what salary.
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You can file an action for custody and ask the court to have your child returned to NC.
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Your wife does not need to sign any divorce papers, as you can always have the court make orders without her signatures.
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Yes, but you are also entitled to half of the funds she obtained.
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You must always follow the service laws of North Carolina if you are filing litigation here. You serve someone in another state in the same manner as you serve in North Carolina.
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Your separation agreement should have language that protects you if your wife does not refinance. Following the language of your separation agreement is your only option.
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Yes, valid separation agreements last past the date of the divorce. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax
10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
704.644.2831 main voice
704.307.4595 main fax
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