We tried to sit down and come to agreement on dividing property, and it did not turn out as expected. Being that I am SAHM and he made it clear that he wanted me to stay home and not work, while he work, and paid for everything. I am not able to pay for the house and car payment. He says that he will not pay for them, that it will be added into Spousal support, and I can pay for them through that. Is this true, I thought that CS & SS was separate from him having to pay for house, car or utility bills. He knows that I will need to go back and further my education first, before getting a good paying job. He is really pushing for me to get the Divorce and getting a Job. Which I still do not want a Divorce. He is filing for a Divorce based on unhappiness and neglect. Yeah right! He admit the last time he came back that he was not happy in that relationship, he was sick and needed help. He never tried to get help, so he is back cheating again. Who should be unhappy, who was neglected when he cheated on me twice, abused me mentally, emotionally, verbally, and physically, and blamed me for his cheating, took our children through the worse of times as well for 10 years, and he still thinks that I should feel sorry for him, put up with his childish ways, being that he wants out and do not want to pay what he should. He says it is not fair that he should pay, I say but it is the right thing. He is only thinking about himself in all of this as usual. He admit being that we have just been separated for 21 days, he is living with someone else, which had me to believe he was at his parents, then parents thought he was back with me. Nothing but lies! Is there a law in SC where I can sue the person he is staying with, which I think is the second person who he had an affair with for two years 2001 - Dec. 2003, they were suppose to have broken it off, but who knows.
What rights do I have now? I am afraid that he might cut us off financially. How can I get CS, SS and get him to pay for house, car, etc. with out filing for Divorce in SC?