Assuming you had a valid marriage, then you will have to pursue an absolute divorce after one year of separation. You would not be eligible for an annulment.
Your date of separation will be the date in which you are both living separate and apart (you have already met this) and you have formed the intent to remain permanently separate and apart. You can then file for absolute divorce on the next business day after one year has passed from this date.
If your husband is still deployed at that time, the court will need to appoint an attorney for his interests in order to satisfy the Servicemember’s Civil Relief Act.
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