My divorce was final in September 2010, but the ED was not done at that time. I did file for ED before divorce was finalized. Ex has been stalling since he does not want to part with any “things” accrued during marriage. Question is: I am now living in another state, and we have had 2 mediation dates. On both of those dates, I traveled back to NC to attend the mediation, but ex/ex’s lawyer got sick both times. How long can they keep doing this? Can we not just set a court date to resolve the ED?