Can you skip mediation and have your needs addressed in the legal separation document, then if if you have to battle it out do so in court? I would much rather go to court and let the judge decide because I know that NC is a 50/50 state and I am not asking for even that much.
My husband owns a business that I am letting him keep without getting my percent and I am not asking for alimony…why do we have to go to mediation (that has been delayed since Nov) when we are going to end up in court before a judge anyway since my husband is greedy and wants it all. Based on the fact that I am a dependent spouse with health issues and have been starved out by my husband for 7 months while he brings in close to $140,000 a year…I believe the judge will grant me what I am asking for. If not, there is no justice in this state. Am I overly confident?