Greetings. First, yes, you are entitled to half of the marital portion of your husband’s retirement plan, but no, that is not considered alimony. However, there are some large issues with the retirement that you need to speak with an attorney about.
Now, the child issue is different. Yes, he is on the hook for support until he files an action to determine paternity against you, and then he will not be responsible. Of course, if you are going to be amicable, then you can agree to anything. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
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Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
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