Military Spouse looking to separate, stationed in Germany

We got married in North Carolina but now live in Germany, do the North Carolina divorce laws still apply to us? I have no idea how we would do the legal separation because my housing is paid for by the military so I would be homeless in a foriegn country. Please help I feel like I have no recourge to get out of a bad situation with anything left to my name.

You must be physically separated with the intent to divorce for 1yr and 1 day in order to file for divorce in NC. I can’t speak to what your options may be in Germany, or another state.