Help me out if u could

I am in the Army.Married to a german national. I recently PCSed to N.C. but she still lives in Germany with our 1 year old son. I wanna file for a divorce.What should I do and how hard this is. I also know that Germany is a member of the Hague convention.
Thanks

The action lies in Germany (both for divorce and custody) as NC does not have jurisdiction over your spouse and the child lives in Germany.