We are divorced and have a consent order in place that specifies an amount of child support calculated in 2010 for three children. In 2012 the oldest graduated and my ex husband simply reduced his child support payment based on his own calculation but no order was filed. I didn’t file anything to say he was in contempt as I have no money for an attorney nor do I want the hassle. (It took 3 attorneys and almost 3 years just to get this far). This year 2013 another one of the children will graduate and turn 18 in 2 weeks and I know he has plans to reduce it yet again.
How is this handled? Isn’t he supposed to fill out the financial affy and support documents to the judge to have it recalculated? He now is making over $300,000 and I think we are required to appear with financials to have the judge make this decision. Am I correct? Is he in contempt?