I’m having a problem trying to find out how I can gain full an undeniable custody of my daughter. The “biological” father is only in her life because I went for help with day care when she was not even a year old. He wanted nothing to do with her from the day I told him I was pregnant. He was not in her life for the first almost three years. He is barely in her life now. Pretends that he cares, sends presents, but when it comes to actually “caring” he says “oh that is mommies job”. I am now married, expecting in a few weeks an my husband wants to adopt her legally. I have a strong feeling that the “absent parent” is going to try to keep this from happening. Either because of his family or because of his new wife wanting my daughter.
What is the best way for me to go about this without having to go to court? Can we, my husband and I, go about this without him? I’ve read up on laws and from what I have read he really has no legal right to her. I need some information please!!!