No more nice girl - moving on


#1

It depends upon what your separation agreement or consent order states. You will need to provide more information regarding the custody arrangement

Adrian Davis,
Attorney at Law

quote:
Originally posted by freedom1
Okay I admitt it. I am tired of being pushed over. My spouse of 11yrs walked out on Christmas Eve with the other woman, we had a good loving relationship. He married me when I had a 10mo old daughter, I got pregnant, we got married and then 5 years ago I was saved and we had another girl 4yr old. He was my night in shinning armour, I believe in him that he can overcome this, lust and pride issue.

We are and were very involved in church, and a woman came along to destroy it all. Don’t get me wrong, he is to be held accountable too in this situation.

How do I begin to pick up the pieces. He has walked out on us before, and came back, but things did not change. I did change, but he refuses to change. I really think this is it for me.

Can I move to another state if we have joint custody… I want to finish nursing school and move to california where all my family is. I have no support here except church family who have been awesome and really need help with the 3 girls.

Legally can he make me stay in this state? I don’t want to be held captive somewhere where I do not want to be for the next 14 years. He has a flexible career where he can move and live anywhere in North America. (he is a policeman)

Potentially I want to move on with what God has for me and the girls, can he really try to stop me. Emotinally he has no ground to try and stop me but does the law?


Adrian Davis
Attorney
The Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.256.1550 direct voice
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email: adavis@rosen.com

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.


#2

Oooooo girlfriend, we need to talk. But first, you said you were saved. Does this mean you are born again?


#3
quote:
Originally posted by curious
Oooooo girlfriend, we need to talk. But first, you said you were saved. Does this mean you are born again?

#4

Yes, he may be able to make you stay in the state, if you want to live with your children, as the court can make the children stay in NC.

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
NCDivorce.com
919-787-6668

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service but a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action.


#5

Okay I admitt it. I am tired of being pushed over. My spouse of 11yrs walked out on Christmas Eve with the other woman, we had a good loving relationship. He married me when I had a 10mo old daughter, I got pregnant, we got married and then 5 years ago I was saved and we had another girl 4yr old. He was my night in shinning armour, I believe in him that he can overcome this, lust and pride issue.

We are and were very involved in church, and a woman came along to destroy it all. Don’t get me wrong, he is to be held accountable too in this situation.

How do I begin to pick up the pieces. He has walked out on us before, and came back, but things did not change. I did change, but he refuses to change. I really think this is it for me.

Can I move to another state if we have joint custody… I want to finish nursing school and move to california where all my family is. I have no support here except church family who have been awesome and really need help with the 3 girls.

Legally can he make me stay in this state? I don’t want to be held captive somewhere where I do not want to be for the next 14 years. He has a flexible career where he can move and live anywhere in North America. (he is a policeman)

Potentially I want to move on with what God has for me and the girls, can he really try to stop me. Emotinally he has no ground to try and stop me but does the law?