My STBX wife filed for custody during our separation, We are still separated and cannot file for divorce until July. Currently we have 50/50 custody of the children as it relates to legal and physical custody and we alternate weeks.This was handled in mediation and signed off by the judge. When she moved out of the marital home that we rented she moved to another county and I moved to a location in the same county with the same schools to ensure that I could be with my children 50/50. I am concerned with what she can do when this school year is over that may affect the 50/50 alternating week agreement.
When the lease is up on her current residence, could she obtain a place to live outside the current school boundaries that the children currently attend causing the 50/50 agreement to be difficult and tell me to deal with it? I did ensure in the parenting plan that we must provide 90 day notice to the other in the event of a move.
What if I would like to move where there are better schools and opportunities for my children? How is something like this handled. I am not willing to be a weekend father and would like to have my children as much as possible though do realize that the likely-hood of me getting full custody is slim to none unless she is strung out on drugs, abusive or an alcoholic. I have heard that adultery can be a means to get full custody, but do not see that as the smoking gun.