He should not be able to list your house or consummate a sale of your house without your signature. Be on the lookout for him forging your name, though. If he is indeed committing adultery, and you can prove this to a court, the court will find that he must pay you alimony. Regarding the rest of your rights arising out of your marriage, you should meet with an attorney sooner rather than later.
Erik Mazzone
The Rosen Law Firm
Erik L. Mazzone
Attorney
The Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
NCdivorce.com
(919)787-6668
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