Pregnant during legal seperation

I have been separated since 10/2019 during which time my spouse became incarcerated and legally separated since 6/2020 when the papers were signed. My divorce papers have been drawn up and are waiting on confirmation that my spouse has received them to start the 30 day countdown to final divorce. I found out I am pregnant in August 2020 with my boyfriends child. I have kept it secret and not told anyone, including my children, while waiting on divorce to be final. Are there any legal ramifications if I let it out that I am pregnant before my divorce is completely final?

There are not necessarily any legal consequences for disclosing to others that you are pregnant while a child that is not your husband’s, however, if the baby is born before you are divorced, then your husband will be considered the putative father and the biological father would have to prove paternity through a legal proceeding.


Anna Ayscue

Attorney with Rosen Law Firm Cary • Chapel Hill • Durham • Raleigh • Wake Forest

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My divorce will be final within the next 60 days and I am not due until 4/2021. So I am fine to announce my pregnancy?

Announcing or not announcing your pregnancy is irrelevant to your divorce or the paternity of the child.


Anna Ayscue

Attorney with Rosen Law Firm Cary • Chapel Hill • Durham • Raleigh • Wake Forest

Rosen Online | Unlimited confidential access to a North Carolina attorney for $199/mo - click here

The response posted above is based upon the limited factual information made available and is not intended as a full and complete response to the question. The only reliable manner to obtain complete and adequate legal advice is to consult with an attorney, fully explain your situation, and allow the attorney sufficient opportunity to research the applicable law and facts required to render an accurate opinion. The basic information provided above is intended as a public service only, a full discussion with an attorney should be undertaken before taking any action. The information posted on this forum is available for public viewing and is not intended to create an attorney client relationship with any individual. These answers are provided for informational purposes only, a person should consult with their own individual legal counsel before taking any action that could affect their legal rights or obligations.