If you already have a court order, then you can state before the court the reasons why you believe your wife is in contempt and have her appear and show why she is not in contempt.
If you only have no formal agreement, you’ll need to file an initial lawsuit to determine custody and then bring up those individual issues you raise in your email.
If you have a separation agreement, you can technically file for breach of contract and see where that gets you, although most courts would prefer filing an inital determination.
Ketan P. Soni
The Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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