Yes, I believe that you have enough evidence to show that he is currently committing adultery and possibly enough evidence to show that he was doing this during the marriage. In the event that you do take him to court, you can get a copy of his credit card receipts and mobile telephone bills, which may also prove his actions. The bottom line is that you need to know your rights concerning alimony and equitable distribution. I suggest that you invest in yourself and obtain an attorney, even if that means going into debt to obtain one right now. Your husband may be responsible for paying back your attorney fees. Don’t give up! Best luck with this situation.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney at Law
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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