On Nov. 30th I’d found out that my husband had molested my 2 daughters (his step-daughters). I immediately threw him out of the home and notified the law. At this point he has left the state on the run, I have done some digging and I know the town and state that he is in at this point but not exact address and do not feel that he will be staying there for long (if he hasn’t already moved again).
How does not really knowing his whereabouts affect me in the pursuit of getting a legal seperation??
We have one child together and although from seeing how he’s done with his past children (abandoned, signed over rights), I do want to put into seperation that the child is to stay with me and he is to have no visitation (because of his crimes), is this also going to be affected by him being on the run??
And lastly, about this time last year my father transferred the land we lived on (I & children continue to live on) to us, my father’s original intention was to transfer it into my name only but when we had the papers drawn up to have the deed transferred the attorney’s office that did them said it had to be in both our names since we were married, so the land deed is in both of our names. How should I proceed with getting this taken care of to where it will be transferred to solely my name?? And would this also be a problem with him on the run from the law??
I’ve been reading on seperation aggreements and division of property, etc. And although I feel that he wouldn’t have any issues with signing over the property and the child, I’m wondering if I even can file the seperation because everything says it has to have his signature, well I don’t know how I would get his signature because he’s certainly hasn’t and not ever going to straight out tell me where he is because he knows I’d notify the investigators on the case he’s running from.
How should I proceed?? What can I do to make sure that me and the children are protected from him trying to do anything with the property or the child that is his??
***And please note that I can not afford an attorney at this time, so any advice you could give me is very much appreciated. I just don’t know where to begin with the situation what it is. Thank you.