Found explicit facebook messages with another woman. Husband has decided now that he’s caught and she isn’t interested to reconcile our 26 year marriage. I’ve agreed, however what becomes of this information in the event he decides to pursue separation again? No agreement has been signed or even presented to me. Have photos of the facebook conversations, which I intend to keep. Thank you.


Condonation, or forgiveness of an affair, will bar the forgiving spouse from asserting the affair in a claim for alimony. A claim for alienation of affection is also affected by the forgiveness, as it shows the affection was not destroyed by the affair.