A couple months ago, I discovery that my wife has had 3 separate affairs over the previous year. We are in counseling and trying to work thru our issues. And I told her that I forgave her. Obviously I don’t condone her actions, I’m just trying to keep my family together. But do my attempts to work thru these issues appear as condonation to the court?
It would seem that the court should recognize the efforts of one party to reconcile, but not be penalized by paying alimony if those efforts are unsuccessful.