MY STBX has visitiation with our daughter every other weekend (or atleast when he feels like it). So far on two occasions he has had her in the vehicle with out a child safety seat. She is 4 and still well under requriments to be in a child restraint. I was not around either times and was told by my daughter and which he later confirmed. He also has a 2 bedroom apartment which he shares with a room mate. When my daughter visits she does not have her own space (room, bed etc). She sleeps with him in his bed. I was understanding in the begining, but we have been apart for 13 months already and he still does not have a bed for her to sleep in. II am not confortable with this situation. My attorney told me to send him a letter and state my concerns - which I did 4 months ago. He keeps saying he doesn’t have any money and he is doing the best he can. Is there anythign I can do about his visitation rights? Is there any law in NC which states a child must have there own bed/space? What about the seat belt issue is there anything I can do when I am not around.
I would also like to add that he is currently owes almost $10k in back child support and does not seem to think it is a problem. I am working with the court system but it is taking a very long time.