Where has her STBX lived for the past year? Does that state allow non-residents to file for divorce? Does her STBX have any contacts with North Carolina? Have they been separated for a full year? Is there property to distribute, and if so, where is it located? Is your daughter seeking alimony/PSS/separate maintenance?

My daughter got married in Virginia. She has been living with me in north carolina for the last year. Does she file for divorce in Virginia or North Carolina?