Need help and advise. My friends husband of 3 1/2 years came home after being out all night with friends (supposedly) 1 week ago has announced he no longer wants to be married and wants a separation immediately. She had no idea and is very devestated.
Below are questions:
- does he have the right to ask her to leave immediately, She has been a stay at home house wife for the 3 years they were married, all assets and accounts are in his name, she has no money or access.
- he has moved to guest room (on and off) is this considered legally separated since he informed her a week ago that he wanted a separation.
- He goes out everynight, no concern of her well being, is he legally able to date other women while the living under the same roof? no agreement has been acknowledged or signed.
- According to NC divorce law, is evidence of infidelity admissible and usable in court…as long as proof of it is obtained prior to either party filing for legal separation and/or divorce?
5.If any infidelity is admissible, are there rules/laws as to the proper way for us to obtain the proof we need? What type/types of proof are admissible (video, cell records, photos, etc.)?
6.Is there any possible way that that she could also be held liable for any of the debts incurred in attempt to open night club?
7.What items (as far as property and finances) could she be entitled to a share of, in divorce settlement?
8.How does alimony work in NC? Is it based his W-2 earnings, Adjusted Gross Income listed on his federal tax filing, or what?
9.What sort of financial documents and/or proof does she need to get her hands on, in hopes of maximizing the financial settlement she can get?
10.Is there anything she should be doing right now to help her cause - gathering of documents, dealing with finances, ways of conduct, etc.?
Thanks any advise would be greatly appreciated.