Separation advice


#1

You will need to consult with an attorney. Though your spouse may not agree with separating, if you have no preference, you could move. As long as you have a separation agreement in the works or have made your intentions clear, have devised a plan to care for your finacial responsibilities and custody (if there are children) then there would be no abandonment issue.

If you think that you have a chance of making your marriage work, you may want to consider counseling. It takes two to make a marriage. I understand that he may have had these intentions before, but maybe someone with an outside view would be helpful. This is all providing that you want to work on the marriage. If you do not want to work on the marriage then nothing will help.


#2

It is possible you could simply move out if he refuses to do so. However, you should consult with an attorney before taking this step.

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#3

My husband and I are having marital problems for a few years now. I have already told him I want to separate for some time (few months or may be more) to see if divorce is really the solution. He is not agreeing to living separating and says he will work on improving things. But he has said this so many times in the past with no result that I don’t want to take his word this time.

I want to know that in the event he does not agree on living separately, is there a legal way by which I can enforce this? We own a house together and I do not have a preference at this time who gets to stay in it as long as it is equally split if we do decide to divorce later.