What to do?


#1

It sounds like the next step you need to take is to contact an attorney to review the specific facts of your case. I can answer questions but I can not give specific advise on how to initiate the separation without meeting with you personally.

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#2

I have been married 12 years. We have one son 4yo. Recently I started seeing someone from my past because my husband doesn’t ever pay attention to me or our son. He is online from 5-7 hours after work and if we are home on the weekend it is the first thing he does when he gets up and will be there all day if we are home. I do everything around the house and it is never appreciated. I am tired of being lonely when there is someone here.

Anyway I am trying to figure out what I can do as far as a separation? Do I just ask him to leave? Do we need a separation agreement? He does not know about the other man and I would hate for him to find out because he is also married. I want to make sure I keep my son with me. I have a home daycare and have been his sole caretaker since his birth. I can support us just fine so I don’t want alimony and if he agrees to keep my son on his health insurance and to split co-pays and things our son needs with me 50/50 I will waive child support.