I was caught via phone records on Dec 10th, 2008 for having an on-going affair for the past 5 years. I assured him it was over (it really wasn’t), and he wrote me a letter that he forgave me, knew his abuse was the reason I stepped out of the marriage, etc. I agreed to go to counseling. In January 2009 I told him it was over and he moved out in March 2009. Prior to moving out, and after moving out, he tried a few times to initiate marital relations which I declined. We divorced in August 2010.
If my ex wanted to sue the paramour for AOA or file CC charges, what is the statute of limitations? I realize it is 3 years, but from which date? Do either the letter and/or the attempt at intimacy negate that the affection on his part had been alienated?