I need to understand the implications of the way a separation is initiated. I have received conflicting opinions from different attorney’s.
My case involves adultery which I have the evidence of, spouse is unaware of this
Can someone please tell me the implications of separating under these 2 different scenarios
Scenario A : Problems come to a head - a fight ensues, lots of anger and verbal abuse - I leave with child on the grounds that I don’t feel safe - contact attorney who files suit immediately - a few days later he is kicked out of the house (the problem with this is 1 - he’s been in the house with my things for several days and 2 - could I lose the house because I’m the one who left?)
Scenario B : Peacefully ask for a trial separation “time to think” and when he voluntarily leaves - file suit. (Will this option keep him out of the house?)
I will have retained a lawyer in advance of carrying out one of these scenarios so that the suit is ready to go.
Is there something I’m missing? Is there another way to get him out?