I’m a 40 year old male being divorced now for over 5 years; the divorce was amicable and no specific days times were set up for my visitation for my son (now 10 years old). I’ve never had any issues with what my ex and myself agreed upon verbally regarding visitation and she’s more than happy for me to see him any time I want.
I was remarried a year ago; there being no problems between my ex-wife, my wife, and my son. My question is this: earlier this year I was diagnosed with incurable cancer and I’m about to start the process of writing my will. Before I start talking to my ex about my current wife seeing my son I’m wondering if there’s anything I can write into my will to give my wife legal visitation rights. My biggest fear of course being that after my death my ex will not allow my wife to visit: I doubt this will happen but I’ve learned that you just never know.