Still married and wife cohabiting in another state


#1

Dear Fiddlemikey,

You can file for custody of your 14 year old and child support for that child, especially since it sounds like your wife abandoned them. However, you cannot file for divorce until you and your wife have been separated for 12 months. You should talk to a lawyer in your area about either drafting a separation agreement or filing for custody of your minor child.

You may also have a case for alienation of affections and criminal conversation against her boyfriend. See our website at rosen.com/ppf/ID/37/alien.asp#alienation for more information. Keep in mind, you really only want to pursue those actions if the boyfriend actually has some money to pay you in damages.

I hope that helps!

Good luck,

Shonnese D. Stanback
Attorney
The Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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NCdivorce.com
email: sstanback@rosen.com

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#2

i was wondering on what i might could do to my wife and her lover/boyfriend she left me a wk ago and went to his house to live she admits to being there and that is where she wants to stay we have 2 children one 21 one 14 can i seek temporary child support and do i have possible grounds for ??? i am seeking a divorce and custody of the minor child i would also like to seek child support we have been married 22 yrs as of thanksgiving
thanks mike