Sorry for the delayed response.
Ultimately, you may not unilaterally withhold court ordered visitation. To modify an existing visitation order, you can file a motion demonstrating that due to the change in circumstances, i.e. facts supporting your reason to change the visitation, you would like to change the visitation to one that better meets your children’s best interests.
If you do not have a court ordered custody arrangement, you would need to file a child custody action and participate in custody mediation first. Hope it all works out.
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