Sorry everyone, I’m having trouble using this website, I actually meant to reply on my original post, not make an entirely different one! Please ignore and/or delete this one.
ncspouse78,
oh my god, only one!??!?!? So the possibility that he is lying is very, very probable?!?! I mean, it’s been months and he claims his lawyer said his estranged wife’s lawyer keeps filing extensions, extension after extension! I guess that’s not possible, so my only conclusion is that it’s an outright lie?!?!? I’m just shocked right now though I suspected. Thank you for the info, I will definitely visit the courthouse. 
And you’re completely right about me needing to re-think things…