I’ve been married almost two years. My husband is a Police Officer and US Marine. In a few of our most recent bad arguments, he has threatened his life with a gun in hand (he’s never been treated for depression). One of our most recent ones, he held the gun to my head twice and threatened my life as well as spit on me and throw things at me. He was definitely in a crazy state. I did not report this because I was scared of a few things: 1. He would lose his job 2. The PD would do nothing and he would come after me or my (mom, dad, etc). 3. Didn’t want to hurt him. I did tell a few close people about it (his parents b/c I knew they could get a handle on him, a USMC friend of mine and another close girlfriend of mine). Not sure how this would help me with grounds for divorce if at all. Is it too late to let the PD know about the incident with the gun for something to be done? I documented it on paper and even sent him e-mails about it which have a time stamp.
If I want to move out ASAP (he’s out of town today and will be back around 1:00 and works in the evenings), I’m pregnant so it could take some time…if I only get 1/2 of my things in one load but come home to changed locks, at what point do I not have rights to the house? Not sure if it matters, he makes the house payments,etc. I just opened a business and it’s not allowing me to support many of the joint bills.