Greetings. Have you ever heard the term “have your cake and eat it too?” Well, it sounds like that is what you want - to make a change to the court order without going back to court.
Here is my suggestion. Contact child support enforcement and determine how much he would have to pay if child support was set through them (if I were you, I would go ahead and get it set). This is extremely low cost. You can also look on line for our free child support calculator and see if that works for you.
Finally, you can change a court order by agreement or by order of the court. My suggestion is that you have the changed/revised order drafted and then negotiate the same with him if you are not going to retain an attorney or file a Motion to Modify. Thank you.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
919.787.6668 main phone
919.256.1665 direct fax
10925 David Taylor Drive, Suite 100
Charlotte, North Carolina 28262
704.644.2831 main voice
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