NO you DO NOT have to let him visit with the children. If one weekend he decides not to return them and you have no legal agreement outlining custody, you might not get them back until you are able to obtain a court date. BE CAREFUL!! If you think he might try to run with the, by all means do not let them out of your sight.
If we have no seperation agreement,or any kind of custody/visitation papers yet do I have to let him take the kids for a weekend? He goes days with no contact with them and has stopped all money.
I am nervous to let the kids go with him until I have custody papers.