Question about wife visiting the kids

Dear raven3050:

Greetings. I suggest that you tell her you want to work out a separation agreement with custody provisions settling how visitation will work so both of your parental rights are handled appropriately, but until she signs an agreement OR tells you where the children will be, who will be there, and what they will all be doing then I would not commence with visitation. The children’s safety should be your guiding post here. Best of luck and consult an attorney soon!

Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607

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My wife left the kids and I 3 weeks ago. She finally got in contact with us a few days ago wanting to see our children. She will not tell me with who she is with and I do not feel safe in leaving them with her and a complete stranger. Would I be within the legal rights to have her tell me who it is she is with before I let her see them? We also have no kind of custody papers drawn up. What course of action should I take?