Greetings. I would stick to the court order and only have yourself and your siblings at the visitations. I agree that your child should have some time to meet with your girlfriend before the child comes for overnights, so you may want to go and ask your spouse if she will allow your girlfriend also and modify the custody order by consent.
I do not have your court order in front of me, so I cannot evaluate whether or not bringing your girlfriend would be in violation of the court order or if your spouse can refuse your visitation due to your girlfriend. My advice is to play it safe. Best of luck.
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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