All of the factors you mention would matter to a judge deciding a custody case. The judge is required to hear all of the evidence and make a decision in the best interest of the child. It is difficult to know how a particular judge might respond to the facts you reference but, clearly the issues you raise are of great concern. If you are worried about the safety of your child you should express these concerns and act consistent with your child’s best interests.
Lee S. Rosen
Board Certified Family Law Specialist
The Rosen Law Firm
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 200
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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