Greetings. The court will look at the situation from all angles and make a decision that the judge believes is in the best interests of the minor children. I will tell you that each judge may view your situation differently - there is no standard or usual rule in your situation, since your situation, you, your spouse, and your children are all unique.
Keep your head up and present your best case and I hope the judge will rule in your favor! Happy holidays!
Janet L. Fritts
Attorney with Rosen Divorce
4101 Lake Boone Trail, Suite 500
Raleigh, North Carolina 27607
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